Prior to reading your post, I didn't even know what INTJ stands for. Now I know why I have felt weird so often during the past 67 years of my life. Possibly I don't tick all the INTJ boxes, but enough to totally relate to your post. Thanks for this enlightening article. I'm married to the exact opposite. My wife is an extrovert, easily connects with strangers, and is happy with people around her. It seems to work out for both of us (at least it has for the past 35 years, with no end in sight).